shadow

what a life
having to live your life with the same person for quite some time makes it so much drama when you decide it's time to grow on your own

what a life.
when you see change in a person, you can't stand it.

why?

is it because you have spent so much of your time with that person & you know inside & out about them that when you see that they have changed into some one that you do not recognize you assume that they are not the same person anymore.

why?
why do you have to think otherwise?
have you ever thought that maybe that person has been living in your shadows for far too long that they do not see who they are.
they need to find themselves.
be themselves.
have you ever thought of that?

what a life.

rather than making that person less confident, why don't you tell them that you are happy for them?
say that you still care for them.
say "you have changed, i like it!"

but what if you don't like the change?

tell them
talk to them.
say how you feel
but don't be selfish
think about you & think about them

what a life.

living in someone else's shadow is hard isn't it?
controlled & never allowed to be you.
now that you are free.
be yourself!
find who you really are.
but watch your limit.
there are still rules to be obeyed.
rules are meant to be bendable.
not broken.

what a life.
cherish every moment
live every second
remember every day
love yourself
love others
love GOD!

"guns are for protecting. spoons are for eating"